How to bring transparency to, ‘That’s Not What We Wanted!’

We’ve all been there. You’ve worked hard to develop the presentation or proposal. During the meeting there’s shuffling of feet. Suddenly, a member of the team says, ‘This is interesting, but…’Presentation. Briefing. Alignment. Solution Focus

The presenter of the bad news has only mild awareness that likely this situation arose because they were, a) under skilled at briefing, and/or b) the project briefing and its context have changed.

In a world of increasing transparency, we still work with the fallacy that when the customer (your boss, a client, etc.) asks you (the manager, supplier, etc.) to address a goal or answer a problem, that your initial proposal will be the right solution.

Why does this happen? The art of giving good briefings is lost on some. Plus, change is constant. The time between a briefing and the presentation may only be a few days, but it’s subject to constant change. And, few projects involve only one stakeholder – just think of the changes going on around each stakeholder. All of this undermines what you were told in the briefing (vs. an information dump!).

Hence, when you present your ideas, there’s a good chance that what you show makes the key decision maker and/or some of the stakeholders fearful, i.e., that they will have to implement it, or that it will conflict with their own emergent strategies and tactics.

Using Solution Focus how do you, the presenter, a) respond, b) help the client (internal or external) to avoid this happening again?

1. How to respond to ‘That’s not what we wanted!’

Don’t fold. Their perceptions or the specs may have changed, but there’s still value in what you brought to the table. After all, they may have gotten some of the brief right! Rather than trying to justify the solution you brought, or worse becoming defensive (remember, it’s their problem!), try this approach:

a)     Ask them to clarify what they meant by, ‘not wanted.’ Sometimes people overreact when they see what they asked for. Just let them speak and don’t respond.

b)     Refresh them on the original briefing, but don’t open up a debate about it.

c)      Ask, ‘What parts of the proposal do work for you?’ relative to the briefing. If the answer is ‘nothing,’ try scaling 1-10 the various elements (1 is worst, 10 is ideal). The parts that get better numbers should be noted. Make sure you hear the different stakeholder perspectives – that will help them see what they have in common and their conflicting perspectives

d)      Ask, ‘Thinking of what’s not working, what would it look like if they were to get better?’ This will encourage them to clarify what they originally wanted and what’s changed.

2. How to help the customer avoid giving you a thin brief next time they request your thinking (and a lot of your time)

Take a leadership position and assume that it’s your job to help them give you a good briefing. Instead of an information session, make the briefing process an outcomes clarifying experience.

a)  During the briefing ask, ‘What’s working (relative to the project) that we don’t have to fix?’ And, ‘What’s the one barrier that we have to overcome?’

b) Make sure you get the perspectives of each the key stakeholders. For stakeholders not present at the briefing, ask the briefing person/team, ‘How would you see that working for your other stakeholders?’

c)  Ask, ‘Suppose we are successful in not only bringing you a good proposal, but implementing it so it’s a success – what would be different/better?’ Again, from each stakeholder perspective

d)  Ask, ‘Suppose during the proposal development period things changed, how would you see yourself handling that so that our proposal continued to align with your circumstances?’ And, ‘Suppose we check in with you to see what progress/change is happening how would you see that being useful to you?’

Why does this approach work? Because we take responsibility for helping people making a request are clear on not only what they are asking for, but also the outcomes that they seek. Hence, greater transparency.

The oldest line about the client/supplier is that they can never fully align. Use Solution Focus better questions to help your customer increase the likelihood of sustained alignment in an infinitely changing world.

More about better briefings and presentations in my book, ‘Monkey Free Meetings.’

 

Better than PowerPoint.

PowerPoint is a familiar tool, so why is there an app called You Suck at PowerPoint?

And, why is there a handy meeting enhancer app called ‘Monkey-Free Meetings’?

What works about PowerPoint? Lots, if you know how to restrain yourself.

So, what’s the problem? Makes you look like the proverbial elephant in the room.

But, it’s easy to rustle up 7-10 compelling and persuasive bullet points on a page x 15 slides? Sure!

You are talking about the primary presentation tool of several trillion corporate sales presentations? Yup! That’s the one.

Nobody ever told me I didn’t get approval because my slides were bad. Your friends enable your denial!

OK! OK! So, what needs to change? Stop thinking that PowerPoint makes for a better meeting.

Get rid of it? Nope. Download ‘You Suck at PowerPoint’ on your tablet.

That’s all? Nope! Start working a powerful way to engage your audience. Read Monkey-Free Meetings and discover how to engage before, during and after your presentation.

That sounds like a lot more work! Yes. And, your hit rate will improve dramatically. So, the extra work means you’re much more productive in meetings.

How? You’ll establish what your audience wants before the meeting and prep your slides around their needs. At the meeting, you’ll ask them lots of questions (instead of leaning on your slides), you’ll be ready for the tricky questions and answer them in ways that work for your audience. You’ll also move on to the next steps with the confidence that both you and your audience know what’s needed.

What will I do with my PowerPoint slides that I usually customize / recycle? Do I have to say it?

Monkey-Free Meetings, Solution Focus

 

Handy meeting enhancer app called ‘Monkey-Free Meetings’ (in timeless book format)  available here. It’s full of handy ideas to use every time you present.

Plus, a ‘free’ video sales pitch!